It's not that Hanna isn't a sexual person, she's just very much over the ritual, recognizing the games but feeling way too old for them, knowing that every participant seems to lose. There are a million of this guy in New York, with slight hair/T-shirt modifications every 2-3 years, just like there are a million Hannas with that hair in that boot/H&M sweater combo, waiting for love to happen to them as they barrel towards 30. We know she's special but how does anyone else? Can't we sort this thing out? No? Is society set up in a way that opposes love? Maybe? Ok.